After a long hiatus, I decided to pick this back up. I still can't believe that Thanksgiving 2011 has already come and gone, and we're staring down the barrel of the holiday season.
With that said, I am FREAKING out about Christmas. And, don't get me wrong, I love the holidays. However, it has come to my attention that the people I have to shop for either fall into one of two categories: 1) I can think of a million perfect gifts, but I can't settle on one, or 2) this person has everything, and I have no idea what to add to their collection.
Gift-giving really shouldn't be this difficult. As long as it comes from the heart, that's all that matters, right? Well, in theory, that's correct. But, let's face it: nothing trumps the feeling of disappointment when someone opens a gift you meticulously chose for them, only to see them give a fake smile and mutter "thaaanks..."
But, it's just too much pressure. As someone who made the catastrophic mistake of going to Wal-Mart on Black Friday, I saw what our society has become. Greedy, shallow, and I realized that I was no better for being there in the first place. That's why I've decided it's really not worth the worry. I'm done with it. I'm going to do my best, and if it doesn't work out, I tried. I'm not going to max out my credit cards just trying to please people. I'm going to put my heart into gift giving, and not worry about the rest. I'd rather spend my time around the holidays being with loved ones, not running around the local department store. And if they love me, they'll feel the same way.